Child Focused Parents
Giving Every Child The Best Life
About Us
At Child Focused Parents (CFP), we understand that parenthood comes with its own set of challenges and triumphs. We are a compassionate and experienced team of professionals dedicated to providing conflict resolution services that help parents navigate through difficult situations with their children and promote healthy family relationships. Our mission is to empower parents, enrich families, and create nurturing environments where children can thrive.
Child Focused Parents was founded in 2016 by Emmanuel Falusi, driven by his own first-hand experience of facing family court proceedings as a Litigant in Person (LIP). His determination to connect with his newborn daughter and establish a meaningful contact arrangement highlighted the struggles that many fathers face in similar circumstances. This life-changing experience sparked a vision – to create an avenue where separated parents in disputes involving their children could receive advice, support, and guidance from individuals who have walked the same path.


Our team of skilled professionals takes a holistic approach to family dynamics, recognising that each family is distinctive in its challenges and strengths. We listen with empathy, understand without judgment, and tailor our solutions to suit your specific circumstances. Our commitment to compassion and integrity ensures a safe space where parents can openly express their concerns and work collaboratively towards effective resolutions.
Whether you are experiencing conflict during divorce or separation or wish to proactively address potential issues, Child Focused Parents is here for you. We extend our services to all parents seeking support in nurturing healthier family connections and improving their overall well-being.
We envision a world where every child experiences the love and care of both parents, even amidst challenging times. Through our conflict resolution services, we strive to rebuild broken bridges, strengthen family bonds, and promote a brighter future for generations to come.
What We OFFER
At CFP, we offer a range of specialised services designed to
address the unique needs of parents in conflict. Our one-on-one coaching
provides personalised guidance and emotional support, while our mediation
services facilitate constructive communication and resolution. Through engaging
workshops, we equip parents with valuable skills to foster harmonious
relationships within the family.
Child Focused Parents invites you to join our ever-growing
community of parents who are dedicated to putting their children’s well-being
first. Let us be your trusted partner in this journey of healing and growth.
Together, we can create a nurturing and supportive environment where your
children can flourish.
Reach out to us today to explore how our conflict resolution
services can bring positive change to your family. At Child Focused Parents, we
believe in empowering parents and enriching lives, one family at a time.
As part of our mission, we aim to support those who feel isolated in the process of going through various types of separation where children are involved. So where possible, we are always open and ready to try and act as mediators between you and your ex-partner in the most amicable way possible.
This links to anything to do with paperwork and keeping that back-up copy in case anything happens to the originals. Anyone who has been through the courts previously or have read up on the process will know that the admin side of things can be tricky and very weighty, and we mean this literally.
This includes all applications which will need to be filed to the courts, letters which will need to be sent over to your ex-partners and the direction and help you will need to fill out these forms. They can be really tricky, especially if you’ve never had to fill out a form to the court prior to this and can also can get emotional having to put it down on paper why you are filing this application.
This document outlines your position currently and what exactly you would like the courts to support you with to achieve in the future. It is a very useful tool for LIP to say how they can be of benefit to their child and to be heard. Again, some may become emotional having to think and relive certain moment which in turn can fall into the position statement. What we do is to steer you back into focus and make sure you only have what is relevant in your documents but our regular monthly meetings will go into that in more details
(e.g. How to conduct yourself, which is very similar to preparing for a job interview)
We understand that going to court as a whole can be very daunting, whether it’s the family courts of another type of court but we aim to make this experience as smooth and straight forward as possible. With our knowledge, experience and expertise in the family courts, we have been able to capture a few key components which we believe shouldn’t be taken lightly. One being composure, another being communication, character and patience. These 4 key components will take you a long way and we instil these in you so you do not make a costly mistake in the actual hearings.
A Scott Schedule is a table which is used in court proceedings in order to clearly set out allegations which are in dispute, usually in relation to incidents of domestic abuse. We support our clients by making sure this is in order and that it makes sense before being sent out to be read by the judge.
We aim to support both parents come to a reasonable agreement in regards to child arrangement in the best interest of the child in between both parents. We advise all clients to be as reasonable as possible and to focus on the child’s interests and needs being the centre of all proposals.
We have regular meetings where groups of parents come together to discuss issues they’re facing, whether that be going through separation, divorce or any other problem where children are involved. This group allows people who feel isolated and lonely to come and share thoughts and feelings with like-minded people who are going through similar issues or even worse in some cases. On occasions we have special guests from law firms who come and share advice and guidance on what options people have according to the law, their rights and simply to just bounce ideas off each other.
A McKenzie friend is someone who attends a court hearing as a helper or adviser to a litigant who does not have legal representation in court. We offer this service to sit with you inside or wait for you outside of the hearing. This is for moral support, note taking and to help the client to not feel as if they are alone.
This is something we do to maintain and keep track of our relationships with clients. The whole experience is a process which can spark multiple thoughts, feelings and emotions throughout the process which can be very damaging to the inner mind. After Care provides each client with a type of therapy which allows them to talk about their experience in a one-to-one confidential environment. We will have volunteer mental health specialists who will focus on the After Care of our clients to make sure they are in the right mental state after the process and to make sure they receive the necessary support not only during the process but also after the process.
The support we offer here at CFP includes those mentioned above but are not limited to those headers that were mentioned.
Client Stories
In this section you have the opportunity to read real life examples of the support we have given clients and how their experience was working with the team at CFP
I was referred to Emmanuel earlier this year, when I found myself applying for visitation through the courts to see my son. I did not know that this process would be so hard.
After the 1st hearing, the court then requested a statement but after trying to do this on my own and not knowing the correct wording/nor formats to use. I made contact with Emmanuel, who I understand has gone through this himself as well as assisting (in a professional manner) others who have found themselves in the same position.
Emmanuel spoke to me on the phone and was quick to draw up a statement in the correct format to send to the courts for the next hearing date, of which I had days to do this.
Emmanuel also attended the next two hearings with me as support. Emmanuel also kept in regular contact, helping to keep me focused when my spirits were low and I felt to give up.
Emmanuel also assisted yet again in completing yet another supporting statement as requested by the courts.
The last hearing has now ended with the outcome which I am satisfied with, but without his help/guidance/support and encouragement to continue, this matter would have never come to a satisfactory conclusion.
I truly believe without Emmanuel’s expertise/knowledge and support in his field that this case would have ended before it had even started. I am thankful to Emmanuel for helping get this far and wish him the very best. If you ever need support in child arrangement issues, I highly recommend Emmanuel Falusi.
Words cannot explain the support I received from Emmanuel, he made me feel welcome from the day I spoke to him. He made me feel like we had known each other for many years but we hadn’t. Emmanuel is honest and genuine, and without his support and guidance, I would not be seeing my son. Thank you Emmanuel, Thank you CFP
CFP, Child Focused Parents
Depressed was an understatement
Life had no meaning because my child was nowhere to be found
I was lifeless
Close to suicide
But one individual from a group named the Child Focused Parents showed up
They came at the right time
They gave me Hope
They gave me Life
I was told I would never see my child again
But here I am
My beautiful daughter in my arms
Thank You CFP
I have known Emmanuel for over 10 years and in 2017, I came to face one of the most difficult times in my life. Having found out I had a daughter was just the start, and then being denied access to be part of her life was where things turned out for the worst. I immediately reached out to Emmanuel having to be my friend for so long, he was someone who I looked to confide into and also seek his advice. It was inevitable that he was the best person whom I felt could relate to my situation was him as he had gone through it too. Straight away he began talking me through what I needed to get done to start this process and from the day I submitted my case, to my fights with the courts and having to fill in paperwork, etc., Emmanuel was always there throughout ensuring I understood and I submitted everything correctly and efficiently. The court procedure was long and was challenging at times but Emmanuel never failed in assisting me where needed and supporting me mentally. My emotions would run high and low and on the days I wanted to give up or times where I wasn’t sure of what I was doing, he always reached out and checked in. He recommended me to attend a parenting class/support group for Fathers who were in my situation. He explained to me that doing this would not only teach me about parenting but would also be a source of other support as I was surrounded by other fathers who were facing my same struggle too, if not worse. There was never a time he wouldn’t call to check-in and distract me from the overwhelming darkness I consumed and till today my journey to winning my case and finally being part of my child’s life, couldn’t have been done with him and his guidance.
I am so appreciative of everything he has done for me during this time of my life and I will always speak highly of the person he is, also all his work and the support he offers to people. He is one of my loyalist friends and I know he will go above and beyond to assist anyone. Not only does he have the relatable experience, but he is also patient, kind, positive, will help you understand court jargon and will never give up on you (the list can go on).
“A problem shared is a problem halved” and everyone needs help at one time or another.
For this, I recommend Emmanuel Falusi to anyone who needs help
FEES
All cases are treated on a case by case basis which means we cannot guarantee a total which you will be paying for our service. We are very flexible and can offer you a ‘pay as you go’ service if needed.
A standard breakdown of our fees includes
Introductory Consultation
from £100
Position Statement (2 pages)
from £300
McKenzie Friend
from £200
Court Preparation
from £150
We also work with A Focused Mind Therapy Services who we have managed to get a very competitive discount with for support with our client for a 50 minute session. If this is something that interests you then feel free to get in contact with one of our staff members.
Meet The Team

Emmanuel Falusi
Founder/CEO

Finan Monplaisier
Admin

Sarah Mansu
Strategy

Craig Sealey
McKenzie Friend